Thursday, October 25, 2012

Amplified Reactions


Anger is a natural emotion to perceived injustice, and most of us succumb to it from time to time and then get over it.  Unrestrained anger is another matter, for it often leads to rage which casts a wide shadow on its victims.  We see this in Pages in the Wind, when Emily is confronted with the mild anger of a trusted friend.

I recoiled, taken aback by his sudden outburst.  I felt myself welling up, and for good reason.  I was all too familiar with anger, and it was not my friend.  For me, anger too often bled into rage, and then violence.  My learned instinct was to duck.

The heroine's reaction is a learned response based on a history of violence.  She has a hard time distinguishing between anger and rage, and has no coping skills other than to run.  As the story progresses, this amplified response leaves her vulnerable as she struggles to find coping skills that will protect her adult relationships.

3 comments:

  1. Jessica Lee BaileyOctober 26, 2012 at 9:06 AM

    Great post, and very true. Anger is tough and its hard to sometimes tell the difference when you've been abused or through trauma. Its sometimes an unlikely reaction which can screw up relationships with co workers and the like. Maybe sensitivity training is in order on all aspects of abuse. Great blog.

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  2. I also have a hard time with anger just like Emily. Once you've been exposed to rage it's hard to tell the difference. Your upcoming book sounds interesting and a hard look at these issues is needed in our society for sure.

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  3. I so agree with your post on amplified reactions. I do it for sure. Love your writing and blog. I am now following under google!

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